Mr. Chronic Perfectionist, Mrs. Fault finder, if God takes into account every of your Short Comings and Chooses to literally whip You each time you do wrong to Him, you would have been dead long time ago.
Genuine LOVE doesn’t keep records of wrong doing. It forgives & move on.
Don’t allow Your emotions to ruin the beautiful future ahead of you Both. Consider using gentle and Calm approach(es) in expressing displeasure over your Partner’s acts of commission or omission.
“A soft and gentle and thoughtful answer turns away wrath, But harsh and painful and careless words stir up anger”. Proverb 15:1
Don’t Conclude or Judge ur partner hastily; don’t be quick to believe rumour mongers; don’t act on assumptions. Ask questions politely and give your partner adequate time to explain or defend himself or herself.
Here is an Open secret for anyone reading this.
However hurting you are on account of your partner’s behaviour, *Don’t Shout*, don’t be quick to insult, do not Condemn, Criticize, ridicule or try hitting him or her. Try this: Point great stuff your partner did in the past that you are cool with. Mention his or her positive attitudes, appreciate those attitude at that material time, then calmly draw his or her attention to the wrong done to you.
*Sweet Relationship Or Marital Experience Isn’t For The Strong Headed, Unapologetic, Stubborn, Unforgiving, Proud & Self Centered Spouse.
It is only Couples who are mutually committed to making their Marriage work that enjoys Marriage.
Stephen Peter Ogwuche Esq .
For Marriage/Relationship Advise Call : 08130005861.